You want, as a bottom, this solution may not last very long; you will probably want to talk to your top about what your needs and desires are, and about how you can both have fun getting to them if you are still not quite getting what.
nevertheless the time for you to negotiate in what your bottom dreams are, and exactly how you might like to manifest them, just isn’t always as long as you’re in the exact middle of a scene that you’ve pre-negotiated. Aren’t getting in to the “Oh, yes, Mistress, whatever you want um, uh, Mistress, you are not quite doing it appropriate!” trap. (are you able to inform we talk from experience here?) Unwind, and respond. Very often a premier will love topping you as a result of your responses the means you wriggle, and squirm, and cry down. In the event that you clench every muscle and make an effort to endure without offering any indication you are experiencing such a thing, your top might get frustrated with all the not enough feedback. Allow yourself feel. And do not hold your breathing! Or in other words, don’t neglect to inhale. (If, needless to say, you negotiated a “stoic endurance” scene, which is different.